Pure self-sabotage. Hey, guys! According to women, dating you these days is like walking straight into a triple titanium shield of armor. It’s as if you’re preparing for an intense battle. Yet, the battle has no opponent. So, what are you fighting off? Your feelings? As women, we understand you have a heart to protect. But what happened to giving a girl a chance, or better yet — yourself? Here are 7 ways you are shutting out the love of your life (and you don’t even know it):